I'm upset and I don't want to show my face. My boyfriend cat Mao has developed some sort of illness (I think from the "dirty girls" but however he got sick I feel so horrible for talking about leaving him. I'm going to wait until he's feeling better and then maybe he'll remember why its better to have a good girl at home than tons of dirty girls on the road. He's a smart cat so I'm guessing he will probably see the error in his ways. Thanks for all of the advice! I'm putting it all in my head and mulling it all over. My furiends are the bestest!!!!!