This is MY Lap Lady's lap. Mine. And Latte thinks he can steal it out from under me. Now I'm willing to share (a little) but its my lap. I own it. It is where I snuggle whenever she is on the couch. Latte has so been stealing my lap and its no more Miss Nice Cat. I've been attacking him and taking him down. I'm giving deep warning yowls and he'd better back off. I'm one tough cat!!! Hear my growl!